I whole-heartedly agree. I, for example, am far from the taste of many of the guys here; however, for those that like what I have to offer, we are both quite thankful to have found each other. It can also vary with mood. We have to remember to be gracious and patient, and the correct opponent will appear.
If somebody rejects you, it is not personal, even if they aren't super nice about it. If they are super nice about it, and you use that as an opportunity to try to convince them that they are interested, be prepared for the mood to shift very quickly. Take a rejection with grace, sometimes the character you have will not be a match for the people you are most interested in, AND THAT IS OKAY! Plenty of people here will interact with you, so take rejection with grace. This inability for a few people to handle a "not interested" is the reason many people are met with no response at all.
What intelligently written post? It can be very disappointing in this arena when this comes up, and it shows that communication and trying to understand each other are very important. At the end of the day, this is a space for people to have fun and enjoy themselves. No one should become frustrated or upset about negative interactions as long as people could be truthful about what wishes or what they are into everybody has the right to say yes or no and should not Be negatively treated we all have good and bad days. I’m going to hope having a safe space like this brings people together more than it set them apart..
Totally agree, some people has no manners to say a no, of course we have the right to say no but be sincere from the beginning and polite, respectful. The same respect you are showing for everybody is the same respect you will get. Happens a lot that profiles are not enough detailed to express your interests and that is when a initial dialogue to find out if you both are a match is necessary. You can show interests or maybe not, that is part of the diversity of interests and what we need is just people being honest and respond with respect from the beginning.
SUPERMAN ULTRA
2 days agoThere are all sort of people. You just need to find the right ones. I absolutely like to play with you some times. ;)
The Blob
15 days agoI whole-heartedly agree. I, for example, am far from the taste of many of the guys here; however, for those that like what I have to offer, we are both quite thankful to have found each other. It can also vary with mood. We have to remember to be gracious and patient, and the correct opponent will appear.
James McKenna
2026-05-09 09:30If somebody rejects you, it is not personal, even if they aren't super nice about it. If they are super nice about it, and you use that as an opportunity to try to convince them that they are interested, be prepared for the mood to shift very quickly. Take a rejection with grace, sometimes the character you have will not be a match for the people you are most interested in, AND THAT IS OKAY! Plenty of people here will interact with you, so take rejection with grace. This inability for a few people to handle a "not interested" is the reason many people are met with no response at all.
UK BRIT PRO FAN
2026-05-12 09:43(In reply to this)
What intelligently written post? It can be very disappointing in this arena when this comes up, and it shows that communication and trying to understand each other are very important. At the end of the day, this is a space for people to have fun and enjoy themselves. No one should become frustrated or upset about negative interactions as long as people could be truthful about what wishes or what they are into everybody has the right to say yes or no and should not Be negatively treated we all have good and bad days. I’m going to hope having a safe space like this brings people together more than it set them apart..
Indomable
27 days ago(In reply to this)
Totally agree, some people has no manners to say a no, of course we have the right to say no but be sincere from the beginning and polite, respectful. The same respect you are showing for everybody is the same respect you will get. Happens a lot that profiles are not enough detailed to express your interests and that is when a initial dialogue to find out if you both are a match is necessary. You can show interests or maybe not, that is part of the diversity of interests and what we need is just people being honest and respond with respect from the beginning.