How pro wrestling affected my mind (my rant)

I love this topic so much. Until now, i found handsome guy get squashed in wrestling g moves is hotter than sex. I always jerk off by imagining those hot guys want to burst their load when they get in that position. Guys like ada maxted, tucker, Ludwig kaiser, austin theory surely hot to see them got manhandled hope i can do that with a guy too.

You like to get manhandled? or do you like manhandling other guys?

It is human to feel/explore arousal as we all develop this in our own ways (e.g., imagine all the different kinks/fetishes out there). It may help us first understand the shame/upset about what we are aroused by a bit deeper and working with these parts to heal them. As ErikAtlas mentioned, thank you for speaking up about it. I'd say that's a great step forward in figuring this out and wishing you the best as you do.

Thanks for your words man

You got me thinking.
I feel the same way about pro wrestling. As an entertainment form, it's the cockroach that won't die. It changes and evolves and gets trends and slants that reflect the yin/yang flow of the gut lust of the culture.

Without shame, I love the old school matches in Madison Square Gardens. I grew up thinking that place was THE opera house of pure entertainment and if you made it there, well you were everything. Then I went there. It's a hockey arena. The dream shattered!

You Tube brought back many of the old matches I loved, especially when a big muscle heel would catch a face in a bearhug and it would go on for 5 or ten minutes! This was sweat slick domination! By the time I had started fighting MMA, I was in pure shame for loving this shit. NO FIGHT does this.

... except in my bedroom.

That made it ok...? But even still after all this, I rarely admit in public that it's my thrill. I have a couple times and it leans into pure comedy. Picture a writing conference with everyone in suits and I'm at the front table mentioning the basic narrative power of a pro wrestling match. I can see the man loving men squirm in their chairs and smile (I see you...)

I believe you @Cannon wrecker - this shit changes you as it changes. It might go in directions that spoil the game for you. In fact I guarantee it will. In my guess, this is why we all seem to be doing something different here on Chatfighters and cyber word roleplay combat, we're re-capturing our individual glory in whatever way we can.

Thanks for speaking

thanks for sharing you ur own story man. I appreciate it

I used to watch WWE a lot in my childhood and was a big fan of pro wrestling. Somewhere down the line my perspective changed as I saw a lot of wrestlers in trunks. Guys like Ted dibiase jr, Miz, Cody Rhodes etc. They changed it. For some reason my mind became twisted to this jobbing thing. I began loving watching these guys getting dominated by their opponents and wanted to experience it. I feel bad amd ashamed about this. For sometime I couldn't watch pro wrestling in a positive way. I really wish I didn't watch those guys. I wish I just sticked to watching guys like Undertaker, Shawn Michaels, Hardy boyz, Dudley Boyz, Steve Austin, The Rock etc. I still watch the old matches sometimes and they feel good. I really feel that my mind has been polluted a lot and really wanna change my perspective about pro wrestling in a good way. Sorry for the long rant. Just felt like letting it out. If anyone is similar to me, feel free to leave sone comments about your experiences

I think there are way more dudes like you than you realize.

Growing up, I always liked watching wrestlers with great abs taking gut busters. Just like you, I felt weird about it and kept it to myself. Then college hit, and I found out that lots of frat bros were into the same thing: watching other buff dudes beaten up. They just never admitted it.

I had a friend with rock solid 8-pack abs. We got close because we were both low-key, non-confrontational guys who wanted to prove our toughness in our own way. So, we let other guys punch our abs. My friend got his legendary abs into countless troubles because he was a lot muscular and tougher than me. He never turned down any gut punching requests due to his “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” mentality. Some of these GP sessions were just for show at frat parties, but quite a few private sessions went way out of control. One year after his last final exam, he was unexpectedly dragged into the woods by a dozen frat bros. Those dudes took turns mercilessly punishing his abs for about 30 minutes non-stop. The session only stopped because someone called the police.

You think watching WWE jobbers suffer is shameful? Well, just remember there are plenty of men who are more extreme than you. They just never want to admit it.

It’s probably weird to say that these GP sessions actually helped my friend and I feel “normal” again, because we realized that many other dudes enjoyed the same scene with us.

So yeah, I'm with the other guys here: it might be worth asking where the shame is coming from. You're not the only one who enjoys a brutal workover. That's why there are so many popular buff jobbers out there.

I know I’m pretty green here and not best-positioned to give advice, but I don't think liking a specific kind of intensity in a fantasy/entertainment context makes you broken.

Good luck, bro. Hope you find a way to make peace with yourself.

good to know that there are people similar to me. The shame is because I did some crazy stuff like I would pretend to wrestle another guy while in my trunks like underwear and have even hurt myslef by hitting. I don't do it now but I certainly did try some crazy stuff when younger. I thought I was the only one who was like this and considered myself a weirdo. It's good to know that there are people similar or maybe even crazier than me. But for me personally I just want to change for the better. Those who enjoy those stuff can have their fun but I want to change

I think I could go on at length about the nature of sex and fetish right here. When you got that real different thing that turns your screw, your only choice early on it presuming you're a freak and no one else could possibly understand (the alternative is that gawd really loves me and gave me this secret private rainbow of pleasure invented purely for me... few people find that road sanely.) I wanted to fight and wrestle and crush the fuck out of guys. Put myself in some dangerous fights just to get there.

And I played with many subby guys that wanted a big man on top with fists and fury! yea I did that for them, but made scream theater and scared them into thinking I was really busting them up... I wasn't. (And they got after care, because I take care of my toys.) but the same guy later gets the loving shit kicked out of him at a truck stop, looking for what I served up. He found a monster, not an an actor.

I still feel complicit in that tragedy. He's ok. But his family had to have an intervention about this and ask some questions. I was there to help with answers.

@cannon wrecker, I think you got lucky and found some guys that didn't haul you into the woods and re-enact Lord of the Flies on you. But in the same token, you're not a freak. Maybe you are blessed with that private rainbow. Just seek like minded players if it comes to IRL. (I guess this goes for anyone reading - the point of this forum, bring this to light for all of us.)

I make it a point to make sure my rough-play partners are loved after, 1) so I don't go back in the street a monster 2) so he knows he's ok and what we did was fun. Being the top guy takes strength and brains, compliment him when he gives you that. Being on the receiving end takes courage and endurance, admire your man for that and tell him, it matters. Men need to be tested, some more than others. We crave it like pizza. Knowing that going in is sanity saver.

it's good that u taie care about f ur opponents but I am too scared and won't put my bodybon the line cuz I myslef have hurt my neck and back trying to re enact suplexes and other moves. I think I will stick to watching or maybe cyber.

DM me if you wanna talk. I believe in your strength.

I will attest, with full confidence...ErikAtlas does genuinely take care of his toys ;)